Butt play can make your orgasms so much more intense. In fact, it’s the kind of stimulation you should be doing to experience a highly coveted anal orgasm.

The best thing about doing anal stuff is that you can explore backdoor stimulation in so many ways. Here are some of the rules and the experiences you should be prioritizing to get your booty singing with pleasure.

Try Butt Stuff on Your Own First
Many people feel uncomfortable about bringing up the butt play idea in front of their partner.

There will always be worries about their sexual preferences or being clean enough back there to make the experience amazing for everyone involved.

In order to eliminate some of these worries, try butt stimulation on your own first.

You can use a well-lubed finger to get a better sense of what it feels like.

If you enjoy the experience, the next step will be to move on to specialized anal toys. Butt plugs are incredible for starters and so are anal beads. In time, you’ll start craving more powerful sensations. Dildos with thrusting shaft will give you the most intense anal play ever, plus such dildos will stimulate internal erogenous zones like the prostate or the G-spot.

Start Out Slow with Your Partner
Once you muster the courage to talk to your partner, you’ll next get an opportunity to do some butt stuff together.

The key to enjoying the experience is taking it slow and being patient, whether you’re giving pleasure or you’re on the receiving end of booty fun.

You should be properly aroused and well stimulated before you focus on the booty. Getting there means touching, kissing and some non-penetrative play. Eventually, you’ll feet ready for a finger or the use of a sex toy.

Don’t rush into anal sex, especially if you’ve never had it before. Build yourself up to that experience. Set clear boundaries with your partner and make sure that both of you are respecting the limitations and communicating all through the experience.

To Prep or Not to Prep?
This is such a big and common question that we have to do some deliberation on the topic.

Douching isn’t a requirement for anal play, especially if you have a good diet and regular bowel movements.

Pooping a few hours before doing butt stuff means that the rectum will be clean. If you need to do something in order to feel more comfortable, try a gentle douche. Having an enema isn’t a prerequisite for anal fun. In fact, it can damage the lining of the colon if you use such a method of hygiene all too often.

As you become more comfortable with anal stuff, you’ll stop worrying about poopy episodes. The chances of them happening are super slim to begin with. If any of you is worried about some poop, a condom will serve as an excellent barrier.

Choose the Right Positions
Whether you’re using anal toys or you’re getting ready for partnered penetration, certain positions will make things easier and a lot more pleasurable for everyone involved.

Being on top of your partner is the best choice for beginners. You can also use the position with a suction cup dildo or butt plug. Being on top gives you full control over the depth and speed of penetration. This position will make you feel more comfortable, confident and in charge.

Doggy style is another good anal position that will give your partner easy access. The position also allows for deeper penetration and more thorough stimulation of internal erogenous zones.

Spooning will also work well for anal stuff. Modify the position by pulling your knees towards your chest. You will be opening yourself up for some amazing pleasure stuff. Spooning is also a very intimate position that will make you feel more connected to your partner.

Obviously, you’ll need to experiment with other sex positions. In time, you’ll discover the ones that give you the most control and result in the best penetrative experience. Don’t forget to employ lots and lots of lube. The booty doesn’t lubricate itself and not having enough of the slippery stuff will make things uncomfortable. Opt for specialized lube rather than baby oil or another DIY option. Lubes created for anal are characterized by extra slipperiness and longevity, reducing the risk of unpleasant tearing when things become really heated.